Philosophy of relationships has always been incredibly important to me and my understanding of how I connect with others. Drifting between various understandings during adolescence drastically altered how I interacted with others. Often this wasn't exactly conscious choice by me

and that just made it all the more confusing for those around me. Especially with those I had long term relationships with, namely Gail. It has taken a long time but I think relationship anarchy has given me a framework to understand social relationships in a compelling and