you should talk more about your feelings and less about your ideas

not because feelings have metaphysically primacy over ideas, just from the practical matter that you are more likely to be misinformed about your ideas (that is, there is falsity in the ideas themselves and your understanding of the nature of what those ideas truly are)

there is a rush to attribute meaning to feelings, to graft something with more weight onto the appearance of superfluity rather than allowing the feelings to speak for themselves