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whenever i start making posts that include pronouns to protect the identity of the subject i know it's time to move to my diary
while other people being able to understand is nice, my rejection of my own ambiguity is largely for my own sake (mostly at the time of writing because ive learned how dangerous its influences is on me, but also for looking back so i have a better understanding without extended cross-reference)
obviously this is a reply to em, but not in a way i felt i could appropriately reply to any of her posts with. id have more to say directly but it's also not so much my place, and it's all more personal anyway