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perception by another is usually predicated upon at least some minimally voluntative aspect (even if that amounts to no more than mere toleration or teeth-gritting acquiescence in service of some instrumental end)
that’s a rather banal observation but it becomes interesting when one’s self-concept differs from the observer, and this situation can present itself when the “usually” condition above is violated
tldr kasey was like “whats going on i’ve never seen u like this” and i was like “wym this is just tuesday”