like yeah they aren’t the same thing, there’s a venn diagram here, but that’s kinda my point. loveless monosexual expectations are excluded but i’m okay with that because the scoping is all wrong in the first place
like yea you can try and stretch the former to cover the latter’s bases but it’s just really missing the crux of the issue, and it lends itself to inattentiveness to the ways in which poly folks reproduce the same logics