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god that really hit though, so raw

it hit both for the bar itself but also in the context of the meaning of that post and my recent life, like post-willow has been feeling more actual but less thought about. the asexuality interpretation fits too tho lol

also *practically* actual

as in like both the practicality sense and the “roughly, not quite there” sense which makes “become” (past tense) even more crazy