Bad enough! The same old story! When one has finished
building ones' house, one suddenly realizes that in the process one has learned something that one really needed to know in the worst way - before one began. The eternal distasteful "too late". The melancholy of everything finished!
in some ways i’m sorry i’m not someone juliet can talk to right now, but that doesn’t mean im motivated to become someone like that again for the time being
the “taxonomically” thing isn’t unique or new, there’s this whole genre of “you must endorse every widespread proposition about gender than makes tgirls feel good otherwise you’re transphobic” and it’s just so tired
it depends on how serious i am about attempting early retirement but the upshot is i should probably be erring much more on the side of traditional over roth, and likely just going for minimum employer match and dumping the rest to standard brokerage account