just to draw this point out further, the above context is like okay yea cool i can see how those thought patterns could lead to a tailored and specific intervention. the interesting parts are the specific ways in which life has lost its unity*, not the brute fact that it has
anxious and avoidant foci are useful but i have yet to be impressed by any finding in relation to "insecure attachment". at best it's simply tautological and it feels exemplative of psychology's failure to understand what it is doing
btw root screenshot comes from archive.dreary.dev/posts/did_pl..., i was looking for "get over". it's funny, i recall how wrong of a diagnosis that felt at the time and it's even more absurd now