i know i’m not the target audience but fwiw i personally don’t find ‘purity’ or inexperience attractive at all really. people like you for lots of reasons and i don’t see that changing
to be clear this doesn’t mean that inexperience is like bad, especially if both ppl are in the same boat, just more communication and feeling things out yk
i really have been feeling the “catch me” portion. like there’s this really robust net and there’s all sorts of people i can rely on and go to. i never have to feel alone
this isn’t even a clever read of the situation. the old district said they didn’t have enough white kids and rejected the transfer request, so my parents just white flighted