im too fucking cordial capybara appeasement syndrome now, i just dont have that fire in me anymore.
im delicate and so is everyone else and the world is scary so most of the time i just want to find my burrow with people i can love now
but yea i think i also recognize that theres a willow learning curve and like, trying to get someone to realize that self harm is sacred and precious is just a hard sell i think
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i mean i was just coming at it with the angle of, i cant expect every person around to be familiar with my idiosyncrasies, you're absolutely right that in the context of me it's one of the most offensive things you can do
this isn’t actually a contradiction tho because what i’m philosophically opposed to is some strong sense of neutrality, not just, yknow, not going out of my way to nuke things