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willow

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andromorphic angel



twinning
https://love-language.co/en

My main love language is:
Physical Touch
You love to hold hands or receive a hug, kiss or pat on the back. For you, physical touch can be ten times as powerful and comforting as any words.
My test summary
Physical Touch
38%
Quality Time
28%
Words of Affirmation
21%
Acts & Services
10%
Receiving Gifts
3%

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yea you have my permission, but i’m keeping an eye on you…

yeah that’s what i kinda mean too, like if im dwelling on a theme it likely is at least somewhat related to the rest of my relationships

well maybe it is, if it works it works

dude i’m so fucking jehdhdbnsjajsjzjxnxnsbbabsjsjsjshbsbxbdksoskdnjsnsbxhcucbnsbshsbdbdhendnskoakqnsndjsjwndusndnfhdjwnjdjdnenwjdndnejnenfjfiflspqpqldnnxmaoqksndjisjdjfiwkkwnfjdnsoqpqpjdhfnfbusjandjdisknwjdidksnhduwjqndjfijdnfjkewkpwpdodjndnwbeurjndhwiwndnfujwjwnfjfnngjdjwjjejdjfjfjfjjenwjwoqpidjfhf

please stop opening tickets lmfao

mhm absolutely, this was not meant to imply that feelings are uncultivable, unquestionable, or the only good to consider - just that their fleeting nature might make them all the more valuable, rather than being a reason to disregard absent an overwriting reason
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(and my subskeet indicates that i have different reasons that i consider properly overwriting 🙂)
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the language is rather stiff here, but i really mean something more like trust and indulgence can cohabitate, provided one has the right model of trust

microblogging interpretative quality would be improved if more familiarized themselves with aphorism as form

feelings [can] fade over time, and that’s why you should greedily indulge and not leave them to waste


nah that one is cringe and anti-cheating-pilled

has someone made “The Art of Sharing Lovers” but cute and gay instead of soy and cringe

i was just trying to follow your script !

> what’s it like living with kasey? oh yknow, just hearing “help!! i’ve just contracted garg!!” in the other room at random intervals

i’ve got the other ones on lock, rule 9 is just a sneaky little guy
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rule 1 came free with my cambridge contextualism subscription


it’s literally never not rule 9 man.

gm claire, you’re unbelievably important to me

woke up from a nap to gifts from very important people, i am so blessed.
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thank you for helping me survive


not spiraling but still defeated

hmmm i think this is the first time ive had a * go rather awry. i think im still somewhat unsettled in my position here. maybe that’s why im grappling with an older me? there’s something discordant, lacking cohesion, and anachronistic - and im tempted to say * may be accurate exactly for this reason
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i thought about it more and i think it has less to do with recency and more to do with juxtaposed rapidity
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put another way, it’s not an issue of indeterminacy but rather several all-too-determinate relations that sit uncomfortably for me to simultaneously occupy. i think this is partially due to various misconceptions i have yet to correct, and also the inappropriate narrowness i prescribe myself
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but like, it’s sooooo nbd blawg

kys gargy lil gremlin *chases u around and puts u in a cage*
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anyway i’m deleting above i just needed to think that out

wait i actually wonder if kasey could at least partially parse this

i would assume so, i think it’s just something with the getAuthorFeed retrieval but didn’t have time to look into it more this morning
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like the getAuthorFeed just misses a post that you can see if you listRecords for example lmao

as in, the post doesn’t appear in my profile, but does appear in feeds (create two posts with the same createdAt then delete one)

if you link a bsky.app search, the query itself is stripped from the url so it’s worthless. you can link main.bsky.dev search links (as i have now “edited” the original post to have), but that has obvious disadvantages and doesn’t do the nice behavior of redirecting in-app on mobile
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i learned some other stuff about createdAt collision behavior in the process though (because i’m a massive moron :3)



imagine this reply as a TOS violation


the application of exaggeration ought be contextual, too (see dreary.dev/blog/reply-t...)

its funny to me bc 1) its ambiguous between "kantian, bitch" (insult) and "kantian bitch" (bitch refers to the speaker and kantian is an adjective) 2) bureaucrat account as a kantian is very fitting

sorry im not a kantian bitch

really not in the mood to go to this fuckass meeting

observing you has inspired a fair amount of experimentation in my ways of thinking and has been very beneficial
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hopefully not in a way that appears to you as parasocial or putting vertical distance between us, it’s more like the interest in seeing a mode of life estranged from my established patterns that i’m cautiously compelled by, trying out, and becoming acquainted with

it’s okay to embarrass yourself sometimes, and putting yourself out there is usually worth it