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willow

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andromorphic angel




i have a lot of unformed thoughts about the recent prominence of 'safety' as a theme in my relationships

the tracks i loop are a weird subset of my overall music diet. for plenty of these i can point to the project i was working on at the time
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i do have a lieu and twikipedia problem tho, it came free with my XY chromosomes

otaku brit guy with women issues with a heart of gold lmao this autismo way to describe you but i feel like your character really fits nicely into a group dynamic and enhances the vibe

you’re comfy and i enjoy your posts and vcing with you. rly glad you’re around, your presence rounds out an important niche



(dw prxr i didn’t like the surrounding framing then either and i don’t like it now, but temporarily inhabiting it allows for something interesting to come to the surface. i will say though that i have felt more pressure lately to adopt it, however. i wont give in… fighting!!)


i offer a try before u buy period tho
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also 6

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my extremely conditional love

don’t take the bait yapper, she’s lying

rivals to lovers ? 🥺

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if anyone asks i linked my profile not for clout but so that people would be able to identify me at all
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i hope y’all can get used to vague posts that mean nothing to 99.6% of you, this is my posting style now

i’m one of those leantóir!!!

honey i know you’re desperate but there’s no reason to stoop this low

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real emails i receive at 4:50pm: Subject: “ARE YOU AVAIL??” no body text love my job 🫠
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update: they sent a follow-up saying: “we think we figured it out, and if not we’ll find out next week” ok man

this is my real customer bro i hate this shit 😭😭😭
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it’s genuinely terrifying that an entire state’s healthcare is in the hands of this organization (they have a monopoly)

*system does flawless automation, gracefully and robustly determining appropriate record values* user: haha watch this

i missed u too lucy 🖤

you should get a reddit boyfriend soap

and you said it wouldn’t be necessary to follow @female.bsky.social, how could i miss bangers like these!

schizoid personality disorder. the schizoid dilemma is the need for human connection but the fear of being controlled by said connection. the schizoid compromise is a given solution/coping strategy for dealing with the dilemma
Disorders of the Self: New Therapeutic Horizons. The Masterson Approach.
Ralph Klein, Shorter-Term Treatment, pg 98


recently created second tier of blocklist so i can break my own rules

i’m literally always saying this

heh you’re fine, there were ~500 others that had the same temporary fate

alright whatever i’m back (sorry if i blocked you for a minute there)


"Being that close and that needy feels unsafe, more like a prison than a refuge." "It's times like this that I feel I have to get away. So I go inside myself. Should I feel? Should I commit myself? And if so, how? I'm trying to stay in touch a little longer with these feelings."

The interruption of a previously successful schizoid compromise (successful meaning stable and predictable) creates tremendous intrapsychic motivation for change in order to effect a new, stable, better compromise.
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my only criticism is that ralph klein is overly optimistic here. there is no pressure for a 'better' compromise (or anything meaningfully 'new', for that matter), rather any compromise at all. however, the delusional optimism is likely therapeutically useful, so i'll let it slide a bit


guy who goes to his first endo appt with bazingas
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none of you perverts get excited, i’m overplaying it for the bit (the profile is still surprising to me tho)

oh yea the 'i miss' is that i still have my 'chat' moderation list active and most of my social circle is blocked

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