well ur just buddy buddy with all the right fellas. and you're able to send a workgroup email without having a nervous breakdown over the course of 4 days
100%, shame avoidance was one of my strongest motivators, it's just extra unfortunate that asking for help internally was also shame-inducing so i just never learned anything outside of our documentation. which, yknow
clearly emotions out of desperation. the acquiescence has blatantly gendered associations as well. i’m not gonna fight for my own unhappiness as much anymore probably (if you know me, this is a massive concession). ideology is in the doing.