i use stylus to override css. userstyles.world is down rn ig, but i put my css up on plonk if u wanna copy

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Sexuality is the release we are given from the discipline of the work process. It is the necessary complement to the routine, regimentation of the work-week. It is a license to ‘go mad,’ to ‘let go,’ so that we can return more refreshed on Monday to our jobs.

‘Saturday’ is the irruption of the ‘spontaneous,’ the irrational in the rationality of the capitalist disciplining of our life. It is supposed to be the compensation for work and is ideologically sold as the ‘other’ from work, a field of freedom in which we can presumably be our true selves,

have the possibility for intimate contacts in a universe of social relations where we are constantly forced to repress, defer, postpone, hide, even from ourselves, what we desire.

This being the promise, what we actually get is far from our expectations. As we cannot go back to nature by simply taking off our clothes, so cannot become ‘ourselves’ simply because it is love-making time. Little spontaneity is possible when the timing, conditions and the amount

of energy available for love are out of our control. Not only after a week of work our bodies and feelings are numb and we cannot turn them on like a machine. But what comes out when we ‘let go’ is more often our repressed violence and frustration than our hidden self ready to be reborn in bed.

Among other things, we are always aware of the falseness of this spontaneity. No matter how much we scream, sigh, and how many erotic exercises we make in bed, we know that it is a parenthesis and that tomorrow we both will be back in our civilized clothes

– we will have coffee together preparing to go to work. The more we know that it is a parenthesis which the rest of the day or the week will deny, the more difficult it becomes for us to turn into ‘savages’ at the socially sanctioned sex-time and forget everything else.

We cannot avoid feeling ill at ease. It is the same embarrassment we experience when we undress knowing that we will be making love, the embarrassment of the morning after, when we are already busy re-establishing distances;

the embarrassment (finally) of pretending to be completely different from what we are during the rest of the day. "On Sexuality as Work", Silvia Federici

i’m really grateful for both of you

would you really 🥺

you were so right

this could go on main tbh

this is from untitled in Attakattak, quoted by one of my all time favorites, Kill the Couple in Your Head

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The Sun is currently three signs (90°) away from where Neptune was when I were born. That angle (square) is marked with frustration, tension, and irritation. The Sun stands for ego and focus. Neptune represents transcendence and inspiration.

i reinstalled the app for this bit i hope you’re happy

i really fumbled the execution tho hmmmm,,, i promise to do better next time bunny

@androgyne.online and @diditeatime.bsky.social can confirm this has not changed

gm danii

yes that’s why i made the reference sweetheart

u rn

they blacklisted my glorbo

list based feeds winning again

i think so too :)

oof not again

it's less pathetic if we pretend like things have changed

catnip for old willow

but where else could i find such fulfilling employment?

there's something absurdly funny about you taking 20 minutes to spin up a couple accounts in between being the area expert for customer escalations and buying a car after your last one got totaled, and someone's seemingly biggest concern in life being the former

i’m gonna be pretty bummed if this admin’s policies cause people i care about to move prohibitively far distances away for regular visits

the world is a cruel place for awwwtistic girls </3

a fellow gay lady i see

Looks like the person/character that created havoc for listifications is back in action. 🥺😔☹️

some seriously sleuthing going down by the least fun people you’ve ever met today

noooo that’s awful

got another one

love maya

not you too

:)

there’s so many of them…

nfw…

lol i think my nipples are bruised

10/10 weekend :)