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hinge dms should have a character limit to prevent what i just did
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me posting an abundance of personal information online: security through obscurity
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sure it’s all out there but good luck finding anything useful amongst the sea of meta-relationship angst!

# testimonials
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anyway might throw these somewhere
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but also

my ears hurt and i feel stiff

leave me alone i’m talking to andrew!
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why is 3:30 the check-in time on hinge lmao


my circle lookin more like a quadrant

i will not show you the rest because it is far too humiliating

youtube being bad at categorizing music episode 2643


yea lmao i do not fw dorothy tennov

did you know that I AM NOT WEAK
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don’t let her convince you otherwise

resist the fairweather

we’re fucked but you’re making it so much worse


uppers and downers

preoccupied? i don’t think so

i’m the user that causes “we’ve never had to worry about it so far” meetings

something something pedophilic, kasey was right

ow man i’m still kinda groggy and i cut open my hand on accident
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i shoulda taken prog before kaseys last night

i’m a vlc hater too, mpv is That Bitch

how’s that saying go about drinking? “borrowing happiness from tomorrow”
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i found out it can be done without alcohol
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in fairness two separate women warned me and i didn’t listen

i can’t tell if i’m sharing too much or if it’s just a mismatch in emotional availability
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if it was the first weeks all over again then yeah sure, but it’s been nearly a year now
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yes it has its flaws and yes it’s difficult for me to really understand what you’re feeling and thinking, i say it’s chill but i wish you would say more
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it wouldn’t hurt me to not receive reciprocation, it’s okay if that’s the case, but i genuinely can’t tell how or what you feel, and i don’t know if you know either
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this isn’t some soul-eating puppy love, but you are significant
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i don’t mind sharing how i feel, although ive been a little more hesitant of my motives and methods lately. i would like to have a real conversation with you and i can’t lie that im somewhat disappointed
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of course this isn’t new, and is a significant part of why i’m still searching. i think mentally moving on from my social circle allowed me to loosen up a bit and that’s actually great, im much more comfortable and natural this way
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ig my only conclusion is that it’s difficult for me to tell if i’m heightening my emotional state by default and it’s doubly difficult if i don’t have feedback on the same level and tone
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and all of this is perhaps an indication that it’s a mistake to be feeling what i have been, how could i care so much without such central communication? and i suppose i don’t have a great answer
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it’s not as if i’m hopelessly enamored, i don’t feel delusional. i feel gentle, and i want the opportunity to share that with you
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it’s alright, you’ve been more than patient with me (although phrasing it this way makes it seem as if i played a more significant role in your life than is appropriate, i’m aware you hardly think about me), so i’m content to be patient in turn. i still enjoy the interim

this is so fun i’m very happy
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i know i told myself i wouldn’t allow myself to get swept away but it’s not like that, it’s just fun and i feel more unencumbered than before
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i definitely could have been enjoying myself a lot more if i let the tension go a little sooner, but i’m just glad i can enjoy it now

im a lesbian