ok i went back and checked our actual message history and i feel gross about posting this now that i remember what happened.
gonna delete op but fwiw i had no issues on my end at the time and trusted her completely, even in a monog way, and i didn't mind being asked for a ride. i'll dm u
"I have exaggerated the somber side, following the maxim that only exaggeration per se today can be the medium of truth." Theodor Adorno, Critical Models: Interventions and Catchwords, pg. 99.