WideHard

i don’t feel like eating at all

lol reading as social activity is not the play

i unironically believe this

i don’t wanna intrude, i’ll ask for the reference later. admiring the contemplation from a distance. great writer

ambivalent asexual

the #1 kypha fan agrees

lol i just wanna arrive

mood lull

i’ll bounce back in half an hour

heh i think it’d be funny to treat @dreary.dev as an archive account, like @disheveleddiary.bsky.social

bio could carry over too :p

the american psyche thrives best on the road

freud relocating his free association sessions to an SUV on an 8 lane highway to accommodate his mentally deficient patients

guess who

cramming experience doesn’t make up for lost time

but it might be a good idea anyways !

mostly got the educative failure

but isn’t that the benefit of most experience !

i should probably get gas and piss soon

you aren’t the girl i fell in love with and that’s fucking awesome

i love when i’m a boy

brooo configure your mychart messages not to send notifs after 7 loser, you had to go out of your way to bug me!

for all its disappointments, i suppose our relationship did fulfill dinah’s original anticipations of disruption and excitement, albeit indirectly through people better suited for the task

god damnit google stop trying to make me go through chicago

forgot the forbidden bloomington IL -> bloomington IN strat and i paid for it by missing my exit

back on track B)

i wonder if there’s any good feminist literature on pragmatism and sympathy

what i have in mind specifically is the circumstance where a problematic situation arises for person A that doesn’t have any grip on person B and how they can navigate that

at least in my experience, sometimes the most beneficial thing person B can do is express their disinterest bluntly, in a way that snaps person A out of their self-importance and rumination, thereby inducing a reframing. that doesn’t always work tho and it’s risky

problematic situations by their nature of not necessarily arriving at solutions (as i’ve said before i like “compromises”) are somewhat likely to recur after dissolving, and the interpersonal affects that gives rise to are really thorny

rephrasing of the above: you had worked through an issue previously to a stable enough place to where it’s no longer a direct pressing concern in your life, but then it comes back, maybe in a modified form. there’s no reason the past method of handling it will be adequate this time, so it’s not

just a settled issue once and for all. beyond the emotions directly related to the issue at hand, you and the people around you that help you navigate the world will have feelings about the very fact of recurrence, which will influence this new compromise

prolepsis is bad for one’s health

me, being confident wrong: 😼 kasey, full of shame for being associated with me: 🙈

grime grime grime

gotta solve this issue in an hour and then i’m free

unfortunately i went to the dave ramsey school of issue prioritization and now my family is destitute

(the joke is that dave ramsey recommends paying off your lowest amount debts first for the behavioral benefits, rather than the more rational method of paying off highest interest debt first. and i worked my smaller issues first but now i have to do the one that’s actually due today)

it makes perfect sense that aurora hates riotlinguist/narcissus, they’re doing like opposite things

unfortunately i’m more hegelian than miss sedimented geist and i’ve aufhebened their positions

when are we gonna kill jampants

cute hair ties

i’m a wifeguy

HR1 antifan

all my orgs are like immigrants and queers dude zzzz

no one gives a shit and it’s frustrating

got they/them’d in the feedback, funny

idk if i give they/them vibes lol