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when is waifu wednesdays coming back
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i mixed your posts and read the title as “hot anime guys in your area” which i thought was cool for the thumbnail
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but yayyy hentai dude

this is a fun way to send limited time messages (though in this case unplanned)


you deleted the hierarchy skeet so i’m replying here
https://x.com/allnaz1s/status/1735780853324882096

original jonas skeet from yesterday, replying to my vent vid about equality:
usage of the word “hierarchy” in theory seems to me like a bad idea. to bring it up in the context of discourse, deceptive or misguided, the chance of conflation being either weaponized or ignored

originally sent to kasey on 2023-12-19 with caption “it’s so stupid”

Smasher @SmashingUrFort
Its actually capitalism
All Nazis Are Nonces @AllNaz1s
it is NOT just capitalism

december 2023 was a good time
discord dms with muen

willow
i am an adept and capable man (none of these words are true)
[gorf quoting me]
@willow im just an innocent little girl in love
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gorf Today at 1:50 PM
hows work
willow Today at 1:50 PM
i haven't done any work for two weeks
if i was checking my email im sure id see it piling up around me but
instead i'm just talking to kasey :3
gorf Today at 1:51 PM
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PKSSSLSSSSSSSSSSS?
HAVE OSME
u know wht based
im doing nothing with my life so i cant say shit okay gonna shoot some white people on red dead now




fwiw i had a different sense of experience in mind here
polysecure, jessica fern, pg 137
The takeaway message here is not to abolish all relationship hierarchies or shared bank accounts, but instead for people to procure secure attachment from their relational experiences instead of their relationship structures. Allow your direct experience with a partner to be the vehicle to secure attachment instead of having certain relationship concepts, narratives or structures be the vehicle. When our experience with a partner is the route to secure attachment, we might still want certain relationship structures, benchmarks and milestone experiences, but the urgency at which we define, solidify or need to nail things down can relax and occur more organically.


yea totally tho, i think you’re right to call those out. i’ll note that the methodological negativism is intentional but again i understand that it can be nauseating, especially when paired with my tone. i mention in the vid that i have my misgivings out the bzzzt reply in particular because that
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was a very emotive and unhelpful response. there’s also some degree of in-group posting, like self-indulgently posting for myself and those who are already familiar with me, and i think i resort to that more and more as my breadth grows since the outside attention can feel invasive
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anyways i appreciate you saying as much and it’s definitely something im mindful of (and despite the intentionality, i still miss the mark on execution often, so ive got plenty of room to grow)

no i don’t mind at all :) i was happy to receive the comment

i use a razer viper ultimate for my email job


i look nothing like diza and im keeping it for now



been thinking about the velocity of relationships lately, as an extension of “velocity of money”. not in the sense of fungibility, and intrarelationship not interrelationship. the frequency of interaction and experience, and what such a measure could indicate in what circumstances
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this gets a lot more interesting if you think about it from a development econ pov, like what stages an relationship can go through and characterizing it relative to its neighbors
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also thinking about it in terms of intentions, like what goals a country has and what trajectory they’re on, what limitations are imposed from without, what burdens do decisionmakers have from the historical position they’re thrown into
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i’m obviously not taking this terribly seriously and there are myriad landmines with this metaphor,
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it’s emblematic of the significance of what metaphors are readily available and why culture and having a “scene” is so important. even within that, there are limits to the boundaries of imagination imposed by history (though it may be beneficial to often forget this and ride the delusion)
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one of the most distasteful things from “polysecure” was the occasional valorization of “experience”, and i have some knots to untangle to explicate precisely why
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also i think i’m gonna stop being so play-pilled about things, i’ve overshot


i remember the uproar when you hid mtp



wait i’ve got an idea

mfw when the LLM lacks justified true belief
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“the ai doesn’t know facts” idk man do u
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stop putting things on my timeline

read in kkona



like the people i'm really tight with are familiar with my recurring positions, evaluations, temperaments, dispositions, orienting metaphors, allegories, whatever. and while yea there's plenty of polishing that can be done to make them fit for public consumption, something gets lost in that process
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of formulation, and i don't feel much incentive to mangle myself for purposes of conversing more widely